Phyllis Jean Lindsay, 63, of Hot Springs, Virginia, passed away on January 21, 2026. A woman who was truly “full of life,” Phyllis left behind a legacy of kindness, laughter, and a community deeply touched by her presence.
Born on June 16, 1962, in Bath County, Phyllis was the youngest of nine children born to the late Pete and Nina Baldwin. Though she was the “baby” of the family, she was the glue that held them all together, always ensuring her siblings were cared for with a heart that knew no bounds.
For 38 years, Phyllis shared a life of adventure and humor with her husband, Robert. To know Phyllis was to know her sense of humor-a necessary trait for life with Robert and his endless jokes. Together, they operated Lindsay’s Roost Bar & Grille for 20 years. Phyllis often joked, “I couldn’t tell you how many hamburgers I’ve made in my life,” but the community knew her for more than just the food. She was the woman who would quietly slide a plate to someone short on cash or offer a meal to anyone facing a hard time. She cherished the cards and letters sent by customers from near and far, proudly calling her children to share every “thank you” she received.
Phyllis was a true outdoorswoman. Whether she was hunting, camping, or convincing Robert to go fishing, she was happiest under the open sky. She loved a good song, a dance floor, a game of bingo, and playing cards.
Above all, nothing compared to the love she held for her family. She was immensely proud of her daughters, Jenny and Kayla, and her love for them was a constant, steady force. Her grandchildren—Alyssa, Austin, Dakota, Ryan, Isaac, Ashley —were her ultimate pride and joy. “Mawmaw” was famous for going all out every Christmas to spoil her babies, ensuring every holiday was beautifully chaotic and full of love. Her grandbabies knew the restaurant was a second home, often stopping in for a milkshake or bringing a friend along for “free food”, because Mawmaw was never going to charge them. They will forever cherish stories of swimming in the pool, camping on the hill and lake, watching fireworks, fishing together, beach trips, and playing rounds of pool. She was so proud of her grandbabies and would talk about them to everyone who walked through the restaurant doors.
Phyllis was preceded in death by her parents, Pete and Nina Baldwin, and three sisters, Jewell Brummitte, Debbie Baldwin, and Arlene Meade.
She is survived by her devoted husband, Robert Lindsay; her daughters, Jenny Brummitte (Mike Entsminger) and Kayla Mace (Travis Gwin); Bobbi Jo, Chris, and Cresha Lindsay; and her adopted son, Robert “Foxy” Baldwin (Crissy Smith), all of Hot Springs. She also leaves behind her sisters, Carolyn Hise, Diana Shifflett (Hugh), and Mary Simmons; and her brothers, Richard Baldwin and Boone Baldwin; six grandchildren; and many nieces, nephews, and so many dear friends.
A service to honor Phyllis’s life and the kindness she shared with so many will be held at 11:00 a.m., Saturday, February 7, 2026, at McLaughlin & Young Funeral Home with Pastor Frank Neff officiating.
Phyllis’s greatest wish was to be remembered for her kind heart and the immense love she held for her family. Her loved ones take comfort knowing the Lord has embraced her for all the good she brought into this world. She was a beautiful, caring soul who would help anyone in need, and she will be missed beyond measure.
So very sorry. Praying.
Praying for everyone!
We really enjoyed riding the motorcycle to the restaurant. She was very kind. RIp.
Our deepest sympathy to Robert and the family, loosing dear Phyllis. She was loved by all with her loving heart. Our prayers are with you.
R.I.P. Phyllis,old friend.
Gosh ..so very sorry to hear this. Sincere condolences
She will be greatly missed !
Prayers for her family and friends and the community of bath county
Phyllis was always full of life every time we saw her. She made us feel like family. She will be missed. Prayers for the family.
Sorry Robert Will be thinking of you ..—-Teresa and Earl Cutlip
Thinking of you all during this difficult time. Phyllis was always so thoughtful and kind. She will be missed so much. Keeping you all in prayers.
RIP Phyllis Prayers for comfort for family and friends
Prayers wonderful soul ❤️❤️
Prayers for family and friends so sorry for your loss
So very sorry Phyliss
was a wonderful lady prayers for the family
My thoughts and prayers are with Robert, Jenny, Kayla and her family and many friends.
So sorry Robert, will be praying that you and your family will find peace and comfort in the fond memories you have.
Robert, & Family I’m so very sorry to hear of Phyllis’s Passing. Please know I’ll keep you all in my Prayers. My Condolences, & Deepest Sympathy. In Christ Love, Ron bogan
So sorry Robert ! Prayers for you and your Family at this hard time! Phyllis will be sadly missed by all who knew and loved her
A loss for this community and so many within it. My thoughts are with the family during this tough time.
I’m at a loss for words… Barry Wood and myself loved Phyllis and Robert as well. We’ve shared so many memories together and I’m so glad we got to spend a week with Phyllis and Robert at the beach this past summer. I’m really going to miss her alot. She has gained her wings and halo
And you can bet she will always watch over her family and friends. Fly high my dearest friend. I love you Phyllis
So sorry to hear about Phyllis.
She was a sweet lady. A hard worker and yes, a loving parent. My prayers go out to the family. I pray God will give you confort.
Thoughts and Prayers for Family and Friends. So Sorry for your loss!
My goodness I’m sorry for the families loss sending my condolences and prayers!
God Bless her family
Robert there are no words to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Prayers for all and God bless all the family and friends.
I’m so sorry to hear this. Robert will be lost without Phyllis. She was always lovely—smiling and kind. Prayers for Robert and all the family for strength and comfort at this difficult time
Our sincere condolences to Robert and the family. We always enjoyed visiting with Phyllis and Robert at the “Roost “ and her great food.
We only just learned of the loss of Phyllis—one so important to our community and so kind to us. Such a lovely accounting of her love, joy, and devotion to her family. Robert, we treasure our memories of the Roost and your wonderful hospitality there. A toast to Phyllis and praying much comfort for you.